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Why it hurts when your beloved is with someone else

Why it hurts when your beloved is with someone elseDo you ever think about the reason why we feel so hurt if our beloved ones choose to be with someone else? Are you jealous, or not at all… And if you are not jealous why you still feel pain when your sweetheart tells you “I was with someone else”?
Let’s find the answers together with GOSTICA….


Do I deserve the cheating

No, you don’t. Your ego will try to make you guilty, but there is no place for guilt here and better don’t listen to it. Instead of feeling guilt, ask your self: Did I miss something that was important for my partner? like to listen her/him, to share with… to show more of your feelings and attention… things that are important for the relationship.

If you find somewhere between this question the reason of cheating ok, you know were was the mistake and you can try (or not) to stitch it. But if you don’t find any reasons for the behavior of your beloved- there comes the big heart pain.


Am I not enough for you

Why it hurts when your beloved is with someone else

Why it hurts when your beloved is with someone else

This is the golden mine of the pain- this question. First you know consciously or subconsciously that you are a spiritual being that could be everything in this planet. You could choose to be whatever you wish. But the main thing remains- you are everything, doesn’t matter that you did not materialize that everything but only some aspects of it, right?

Your soul knows very well that you are totally enough. Ok, but when someone tells you ” You are not enough”? Can you believe this person? Your soul can’t, but your ego can and will start to attack you that you are not enough and never could be. And what is the result- heart, pain and hurt.


I am Everything

We are all energy, that never stops moving. We choose our emotion (with little practice to control them), we choose our reality ( Law of attraction), we choose what part of The Everything to invoke. When your partner tells you that you are not enough, this words are not truth in subconscious level. Even if in the material world it seems like this- the truth remains- you are enough. Do you get the point? Your beloved say words, that are not truth about you and your perfection. 🙂 No matter if you don’t think about your perfection, or never thought about it- it is still there and could not be changed. If the Queen of England comes and tell you “you are not enough, shame on you“, you better give her this article from Gostica and continue your perfect life path with no judging.. and with great amount of happiness and don’t forget that the happiness is your true nature- the nature of your soul.

Again and again, Gostica have to tell you this: YOU ARE PERFECT Creation. You are energy of Love, Light, Happiness.
You can choose to be and to experience whatever you desire. You can just follow your heart…
In material life we could meet any kind of people- some of them will try to convince you that you are not enough. Your ego will respond to that and will agree, but your pure happy Higher Self will laugh about it, with a big sense of humor, will look through your eyes in the eyes of this deluded friend that forgets about the perfection of our souls and with a smile will just tell him/her-

I think you forget to take your Love Vitamins from Gostica- try the pills for broken heart and you will feel ok 😛

So, friends, you just follow your soul…. 🙂

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16 Responses

  1. Ganehs says:

    It’s very nice and super ariticals..this articals learns us that how to improving our self whether we wrong and right..and take the action with positive thinking…thanks GOSTICA for sharing this..

  2. Tina Sawhney says:

    Lovely article. Wise words. Well done!

  3. Lovely insight – also it is worth remembering that we chose everything for our best learning curve, so must mentally thank challenging people for the lessons they have taught us

    • GOSTICA says:

      Gostica has the same opinion, Jeannechristie 🙂 Everithing is for a reason in our life, so we are here to learn how to be happy, no matter what.. 🙂

  4. alley says:


  5. The Source gives us ALL the opportunity to change our lives for the better. By taking away all of the people, places, things and habits that are holding us back from being happy Whiles trying to bring in the new ones that will help us to be happy. We all need to be ready for that., and go with the flow.

    • GOSTICA says:

      Psychic Shane, you are absolut right. If you want to put a clean, new water in a cup, first you should trash the old water, right? 🙂

  6. It happens every 7 yrs.

  7. Stephanie Wilson says:

    Wow This is all so right on! I can never find the right words to explain things and I just forget. There are many things that I have to remind myself of everyday. I think being from the south and from very strict narrow minded southern baptist folks that alot of negative was just instilled in me from birth. Shame on you if you do this or burning in hell for all of eternity if I should even think about sex or money or being attractive etc….I’m almost 45 years old now and it’s not that I changed my religion or anything but experience has taught me that there is so much more to this life than I could have ever imagined and its important for us all to have spirituality. I really enjoy reading your articles and I just love your sense of humor 😀 How awesome it is for me to feel so connected to people who are so far away and from different cultures. Our commond ground remains the same that we all wish happiness for each other no matter what that may be. We are truly connected and I love learning more and more from such inspiring people! Thank you so much!

    • GOSTICA says:

      Hello, Stephanie Wilson. First, I want to thank you for the beatiful words, they are true inspiration for me to continue the path of Gostica. Second, from all that I have read in you comment, I want to solute you for this, that you are one awakened spiritual human, with a very strong, powerfull soul and for this, that you managed to see your real lesson in this world- to be spiritual, no matter where you are and with who you are. I am happy, that my words tuched a person, strong like you, living in this hard times of the century. I am sending to your life path a lot of light, hope and love. Never forget- you are not alone <3

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