Once upon a time, long before you were born, you chose him.
You chose the one who makes the nights too short to say everything you want to say to each other…
The one whose soul caresses you without laying a finger on your skin, the one that believes in you and makes you believe in yourself, even at times when you don’t.
The one who tells you how important you are to him and to the world as well.
You’ll recognize him by the shimmer of his soul and the sparkle that lights up in his eyes every time he sees you; by his strong embrace that holds you tight as if you are going to slip through his fingers.
And after your first encounter in this world nothing will ever be black or white! On the contrary, a completely new specter of shades, colors, sounds and words will appear.
You will need this person as you need the air you breathe. His absence will cause you pain and you will never get used to it.
That’s why it’s pointless to build your life without the one you chose long before you were born. Without him life will be just a house of cards, always under threat, even by the lightest wind.
Can you imagine your journey without his hugs or his smile brighter than the dawn?
Being with him is enough. You don’t have to do anything. You’ve been destined to eternity and the love you feel is so strong that it clouds your mind.
Nothing makes sense anymore, but in the same time, you can’t find bigger sense in anything but your love.
Because of him your mind turns into your biggest torturer, while your heart composes the most beautiful of notes.
And it grows out of proportion. Your soul is trembling like it did the first time when the two of you met and touched…and what is more, every time will be the same, even after 20 or 30 years have passed.
You will recognize him by his love, because you bloom in his presence. He makes you feel loved, even when he is not showing it… even when he is not aware of it.
Everything you need to do is to remember that you deserve love. The kind of love that builds fortresses…cities; that flies over mountains.
The kind of love that knows no limits or boundaries and makes this planet a perfect place for two souls to come together and carry on with their life as one.
Don’t settle for anything less. Don’t pay attention to time or the people who tell you that you are running out of it.
Ignore the envious looks and gossips. Let go of the feeling that you are not good enough for him. As a matter of fact, let go of everything.
Just remember you made the deal long time ago… You agreed to it before both of you came to Earth…you’ll go through life side by side and you’ll follow the light as single being.
This kind of love is worth breathing and living for.
Never give up on him…keep searching, he is there, he exists!
Author’s note: Even though this article was written from a female perspective, it applies to both men and women! Good luck in finding your other WHOLE! <3