What if, long, long before you were born, you knew him and chose him forever?
What if, you chose him when the concept of ‘you’ did not even exist?
What if, you chose your ‘forever’ far before you chose your own self?
But, oh! We all live in a world which makes us think that such kind of love does not exist. This world makes us feel that love is in a material form and there is nothing sublime or ecstatic about it.
Even modern relationships are full of cheating and lies and deceit and obviously, all of this crass cacophony of the modern world is bound to make you also feel that love is too difficult to find and that you are never going to get it.
Don’t worry! You have already chosen the one that you have to be with. This life and all the crappy relationships that you go through are only a test to see if you deserve the one you have chosen.
Don’t worry or fret faint hearted.
You have already chosen the one who will make your nights beautiful and your days even more extravagant. You will feel that you do not have enough time to tell this special one about what you want and how you feel. You will always feel that you are running out of time.
Your soul will dance in his presence and your soul will certify him. Your body will enjoy his touch and will desire to be touched by him even more. You will take great pleasure in all that he has to offer to you. Such a love will nourish your life and it will satisfy your soul.
Such a love will also tell you about your potential and the things you can easily achieve. He will know your worth and he will tell you how important and crucial you are to him and to the world around you. He will not only please the essence of your soul but he will also fill your life with purpose and peace.
But how will you recognize him?
That’s the easiest part.
The happiness of your soul when he is around you will make you know that he is the one. Your body will react in a different way around him. You will be coy and shy and you will need his entire attention.
You will understand, in his presence, what it means to be actually happy. You will be comfortable with him, not only physically but also on a spiritual level. Physically, though, you might feel those butterflies in your stomach and an absolute desire to be noticed by him.
And what will happen when he is away?
Psttt, you will not know what to do with yourself. You will sit waiting for him as if there is nothing else to do except wait for him. You will not be at peace when he is not around and after a point of time, you will need him to be able to even smile. And you will not even realize that you will become addicted to him forever because that’s bound to him. It happens only once in a lifetime.
This person that you have chosen will do one more thing for you. He will add meaning to your life. You will constantly feel that you are special when you are around him and this feeling will make you feel that you can achieve whatever you want to achieve.
Once you will start feeling that, you will expand your potential and try as hard as possible to be the best person that you possibly can. And this will be wonderful because this will nourish your soul.
The person that you have chosen will make you forget how it felt to be lonely. Yes, you have been through your fair share of lonely days and sad nights, but this person will make you feel that that never happened to you.
You will forget all the pain and sadness and you will only be filled with the love that this person has to shower you with.
Such a person will add positivity in your life and make you change your outlook. You will begin to count your blessings and he will be one of your blessings and this will make you so much happier as a person.
Also, you will know what it means to be truly blessed. You will know that you have gotten something that people don’t usually get, so much so, that some people even envy you. But that will not affect you. You will still wish to fill your life with positivity and happiness.
Also, oh you will feel so good about yourself. This person will make you feel that you have the best body and the best skin and the best like everything. You will feel so comfortable and good about yourself and this will show in your personality as well, as this will add confidence to the way you communicate.
The more appreciated you are, the more confident you will be. No insecurities or petty trivialities will be able to affect your core. You will only go in the right direction.
Now, what you have to do to get this person?
That’s right. Just refuse to settle for anything less than what you think you deserve. Don’t let insecurities and loneliness decide the right person for you. Believe that the love your life will arrive at any point of time.
Don’t settle for someone just for the physical need.
Wait for the person who sets your soul on fire.
Wait patiently for the kind of love that will change your life entirely.
Wait for the love that will make you feel like you are best.
Wait for the love that will make you feel infinite.
Wait for the love that will feel like a blessing from God.
Wait for the love that you always thought you will get.
Wait for the love which you have already chosen. Just wait!
This was originally published by The Minds Journal.